Will we be eating cat food?

Hilliard, OH – Oct 10, 2021

Ron resigned yesterday.  He is incredibly relieved and I don’t blame him.  I am definitely quitting too since it has become too difficult to navigate weather windows around my conference calls.  Internet or not, it isn’t working.  I will quit by the end of the year.  I may be eating cat food but I sure want to try this anyway.  I read a review of a book called “Die with $0.”  I sure hope we can manage to be close.  Essentially, it says any money left when you die is time wasted you could have been living instead of working.  I agree with that.

But let me ask you this, would you live on half your retirement to do this now?  One of the first things Ron asked me when we started dating was “Do you Dream?”  Not in the sleep way but in the do with the rest of your life way.  He said I don’t see you dream.  It has not occurred to me since I got married very young and had been told my entire adult life what to do.  I had been so busy my first couple of years post-divorce just keeping the wheels on the bus, I guess I had not gotten to that part yet.  Well now that I am well past that and this is the dream.  I am astounded at the gift this is.

We are lucky.  Make no mistake we worked for this, saved for this for 10 years, and prepared for this but, we are lucky.  At the end of the day, I am not afraid to be poor.  I can eat on $25 per week, I have done it.  We can easily live with one car.  We have done it.  Things that may be a sacrifice for others don’t seem to be for us.  Our kids are nearly independent, and we have already saved enough for their college time.  This feels like the right time to jump. 

Worse case we sell the boat and buy a floaty

No turning back now.  

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Hi, I'm Sally and this is my husband, Ron. I’ve been doing marketing for the last 30 years for tech companies and Ron is a biomedical engineer. Basically, he knows what he is doing and well, I don't. However, the yin and yang of our relationship is total bliss. We decided after 10 years of marriage, the joy of suburbia, and years of travelling, that this was for us. So, we saved, retired, and this is our story. We’ve taken trips to Costa Rica and love it. Nowhere on earth can you see that many masonry animal statues and not a pothole crew in site. Beautiful. Then there was Jamaica where the night before we left, I broke my big toe and was not able to go into the water. Instead, we experienced the most amazing singing bartender while drinking "Shit on the Grass." No lie. Then there was British Virgin Islands where we chartered a boat three times. Twice with just us and the final time with our 4 daughters. Man, there is no better way to hear your kids complain than in a space that small. That was some quality family time there. Now we are empty nesters, we have purchased a Leppard Catamaran and you are invited to come along for the ride. Should be a total hoot.

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