Does being uncomfortable take practice?

 

April 21s, Fernandina Beach, FL

It’s been a long couple of weeks on the boat and not quite what I expected.  Post-shakedown cruise, we’ve decided to go to a studio or one bedroom in Columbus for hurricane season.

As far as sailing goes, I now know how to help anchor and grab a mooring, wrap the dock lines, and tie off to the cleats.  That’s it.  I just spent a bunch of money on a boat I have not even driven.  The tides are a mess, current is horrible, and frankly I don’t know how Sailing Hubby is doing such a fantastic job.  He is at least getting some good docking practice.  I really need to start doing stuff but don’t think this may be the place to start.

In Columbus, we still don’t know where we will live when we get back after we haul out on May 4th.  If we stay, we have no plan for the summer.  With Ron’s company being bought out, he needs to talk to the new owners to see if he can continue to be remote or what his role will be exactly moving forward.  Because, hey, why not have both of us try to hold down a fulltime job while doing the rest too. It really is easy to see why we drink, I swear. 

I guess life requires some level of being uncomfortable for you to improve, change, or generally, exist.  Because, let’s face it, change is the only real constant.  I don’t want fear to hold me back.  In the past, in order to change locations, I never had to be uncomfortable…at all.  I just drove around with the air conditioning on.  Man, I am very out of practice.  This is only step one and I have a lot to learn and a lot of practice at being uncomfortable again.  It’s way harder than I thought it would be to start but I want to get to the point where I start to enjoy it more.

Expert level at mooring!


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Hi, I'm Sally and this is my husband, Ron. I’ve been doing marketing for the last 30 years for tech companies and Ron is a biomedical engineer. Basically, he knows what he is doing and well, I don't. However, the yin and yang of our relationship is total bliss. We decided after 10 years of marriage, the joy of suburbia, and years of travelling, that this was for us. So, we saved, retired, and this is our story. We’ve taken trips to Costa Rica and love it. Nowhere on earth can you see that many masonry animal statues and not a pothole crew in site. Beautiful. Then there was Jamaica where the night before we left, I broke my big toe and was not able to go into the water. Instead, we experienced the most amazing singing bartender while drinking "Shit on the Grass." No lie. Then there was British Virgin Islands where we chartered a boat three times. Twice with just us and the final time with our 4 daughters. Man, there is no better way to hear your kids complain than in a space that small. That was some quality family time there. Now we are empty nesters, we have purchased a Leppard Catamaran and you are invited to come along for the ride. Should be a total hoot.

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